Helpful Tips for Attending Meetings
Scroll down to see information about meeting types, guidelines for attendance, and frequently asked questions.
Meeting Types
Closed meetings are intended for A.A. members and for individuals who have a drinking problem and a desire to stop drinking. These meetings provide a space where participants can share openly with others who identify with the challenges of alcoholism.
Open meetings are available to anyone interested in learning more about Alcoholics Anonymous and its program of recovery. Family members, friends, professionals, and other non-alcoholics are welcome to attend as observers.
Adapted from The A.A. Group pamphlet (p. 13), reprinted with permission of A.A. World Services, Inc.
Meeting Guidelines
Arrive Early
Arrive a few minutes early if you can to settle in before the meeting starts. Take any open seat.
Anonymity
You do not have to give your last name. Respect others’ anonymity inside and outside the meeting. What you hear here, who you see here, let it stay here.
Sharing Guidelines
No cross-talk: When speaking, share from your own experience and address the group as a whole. Avoid interrupting or speaking directly to another person. Keep your sharing brief so everyone may have a turn.
Questions?
Plan to stay a few minutes after the meeting concludes to ask any questions. The meeting chairperson or other ‘old-timers’ will be happy to help you one-on-one.
Minimize Distractions
Please silence your phone and avoid texting, browsing and side conversations. If you must take a call, step outside quietly.
Listening is Participation
You are not required to speak. If called upon, it is perfectly acceptable to say, "I’m just listening today."
The 12 Steps
It may be helpful to familiarize yourself with “The Twelve Steps”, as these are frequently referenced during meeting discussions.
Frequently Asked Questions
No, you’re welcome to just listen. Many people attend their first few meetings without speaking at all.
Do I have to talk?
Does it cost anything?
There are no dues or fees for A.A. membership or attendance at A.A. meetings. You are not obligated to give. We pass a basket for voluntary contributions to cover our expenses.
Can family or friends attend?
They’re welcome at 'Open' meetings as observers; 'Closed' meetings are limited to those who have a desire to stop drinking.
What if I’m late?
Don't let that stop you. Come in quietly and find a seat; you’re still very welcome.